It’s no wonder, then, that so many people are interested in finding out what it is that he has to say and trying to determine for themselves if his work is worth their investment or if he’s a scam artist.
In an effort to practice a little “full disclosure” of our own, we’ve decided to share with you the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, also known as the DEL. (Another term is the “Kino Escalation Ladder”)
The DEL is a technique for taking your date from casual intimacy to full physical intimacy. Understanding the DEL will help you to be sure that you are not rejected when the timing is right, as well as increasing your confidence.
Right, so what exactly is the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder?
This method is a step by step formula which is based on the basic, genetically coded laws of sexual initiation that every woman is born with. This formula is intended to provide a smooth “escalation” towards sex that doesn’t contain any huge jumps that might catch a woman by surprise or run her off. V
in DiCarlo says that he’s tested and perfected this method himself and that hundreds of trials which prove its effectiveness have been successfully conducted.
What’s interesting is that as you read this, you will no doubt recognize this pattern in the successful sexcapades you’ve had in the past, even if you didn’t intentionally use it!
Phase #1 of the Escalation Ladder
The first step of the Vin DiCarlo escalation ladder is Eye Contact and Initial Conversation.
It may sound like an obvious point to make but you’d be surprised how many men have difficulty making direct eye contact with women. It’s essential, though, eye contact is subconsciously incredibly intimate. Making direct eye contact with a woman is exactly what she needs to feel like you have nothing to hide. Direct eye contact during a conversation that is engaging makes her feel like you’re opening up to her and will encourage her to respond in kind.
The next thing that happens is what the DEL calls “incidentals”. Incidentals are a type of body contact that are a natural part of the conversation. These are divided into different classes, with class one being extremely casual and the type of physical contact people engage in all of the time without thinking about it. Reaching out and touching someone’s arm to get their attention, arm-brushing in the course of walking together, and shaking hands are all excellent examples of “incidental class 1” type of contact. Incidentals are intended to brush past a woman’s subconscious barriers to physical intimacy by getting her very comfortable with the idea of your touching her.
Before moving on to incidental class 2, however, there is another type of contact that must be interspersed. Overts are physical touches that broadcast your intentions quite clearly. Overt Class 1 type touching might be holding hands or arm in arm escorting. These are the kinds of touching that imply potential for “greater things” later but are not aggressive .
One of the noteworthy things in the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is the unmistakable “back and forth” between laying a foundation of confidence with incidental touching and then moving in with overt touching.
Incidental Class 2
After overt class 1 has been accomplished and accepted, it is time to put out more feelers, so to speak, and move on to incidental class 2. This is still “incidental” in that it can happen to anyone in the right circumstances and nobody is offended, but generally involve parts of the body that are somewhat more intimate. Sitting in a movie theater with your legs touching hers is a good example of a class two “incidental”.
Again, once the groundwork has been laid with plenty of incidental type 2 contact, try an overt class 2. Many people have described overt class 2 type physical intimacy in the past as “second base”.
Hugging, allowing her to place her legs in your lap, encouraging her to put her hand on your thigh are all examples of over class 2. These are expressly sexual in nature touches but they are not so aggressive as to make her feel like you’re coming on too strongly. They also allow her an easy out so that you can go back to incidentals and still enjoy your evening without freaking her out and spoiling your chances later.
Incidental Class 3
Incidental Class 3 involves the casual touching of the face, neck and hair. Overt Class 3 are touches that are meant to prepare for kissing and are definitely NOT something that should be attempted without plenty of groundwork.
Those are the steps that will lead you directly to the escalation ramp itself. The DEL is the process by which you initial truly intimate contact that ends in sex. The Escalation Ramp starts with kissing and progresses steadily in a direction that leads to the bedroom (or the couch or, wherever your chosen sex location is).
Physically escalating with a woman is just one piece of the puzzle. It really starts with being able to attract her in the first place, Here are a few articles that can help:
- Three Questions that Turn Her on Women
- What are the “8 Types of Women”
- The Trick to Vin’s One Minute Mind Reading Technique
Vin Dicarlo has a lot of tools and ideas that can help you attract women. I recommend checking out some of the articles on this site for more information on how to improve your dating success.